My wife wants to separate

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Nothing really I guess. I have to go on with what I am doing and ignore all of that. Believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see. But it does tell me that I am also up against her best friend who is filling her head with thoughts, and giving W the courage to press on with what we all know (Myself, MIL, her real best friend, and her best gay friend) is the most ridiculous thing she has done in her life. Without this influence, she may have already started to feel at least some guilt. She said it herself, she feels guilty that I have to take care of our daughter when she is gone. But that thought was blocked quickly! Shut down and put in its place. Her best friend from childhood called me several times to ask me more of what is going on. She talks to my W regularly. She said your W is getting counselling from friends who do not know her well, do not know you well, and do not value marriage and the vows you both took that day of your wedding. The do not understand that their counselling is making things worse because they are only validating W bad behavior that will hurt her family and her daughter in the long run. So I was very curious as to how bad the advice is from her supposed best friend right now, and I managed to prove to myself that she is influenceing my W heavily with her BS. This girl met her husband (OM's brother) 3 years ago, got pregnant, got married during her pregnancy and big as a whale, and then has had 2 kids in the span of 3 years with this guy. She has no idea about relationships like my W and I have, were you date for years, you move in together for years, then yu get married and enjoy married life as a couple for years, THEN start having kids. That is a bond that is not easily broken. And I know that after some time my W will regret all of this, I truely believe it. But it could be way sooner if she wasnt getting so close to this girl who is OM's sister in law.