Feeling better today. I knew the bad feeling will pass :-) But I would still take a trip to a tropical island.
My H replied yes to talking about the assets today. We'll pair it up with something fun to ease the pain--probably a 3D movie that just came out. We'll be far away from my place (close to his) so that's better.
Will have "the talk" about levels of friendship again if needed. If he "behaves," I won't mention anything.