Stop The D

[mamabird]

I will say, Spartan, that my H made HUGE assumptions about what I was doing, thinking, believing all the time. He accused me of stuff that wasn't remotely true and wouldn't listen to me when I tried to explain. Yes, in my sitch, he has a reason not to trust me... that is very true. But it all started with assuming things on his end, which came out of his own insecurities about himself and our R.

Just something to think about. You're doing great though. The fact that you're here, the fact that you can recognize what you're doing is to be commended.