Along with the rest of the thoughts, here's some for thoughts for food (so to speak).
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I've just been taken aback about a few things the girls have witnessed with OW and how she speaks to XH. He acts whipped around her! Yet he'll turn around and spew at me. A frien thinks he's taking all her abuse and literally doesn't know what to do with the situation he's got himself into, so he turns around and dumps on me.
Remember they do tend to go for opposites right? At least at first. But since you know he's in a s-m type relationship (at least emotionally) then you'll have to really be careful to not let him dump his anger on you. Who'll happen is that you'll be helping him to transfer that anger elsewhere. We know that it doesn't belong on you, so maybe that will help him find it's rightful owner
They do sound like two f'd up people if I've ever heard it. The OW's exH - that's sad. And it reminds me it could happen to any of us. This stuff can make you nuts...
I've heard somebody talking about baking cayenne sugar cookies. I don't know if they go with popcorn though...
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
