You can run here to vent, that's what it's for and I think it helped you control your thoughts.

But I also think you can help your kids manage the disappointment or even avoid the disappointment. If she continues in this position, this will always be apart of their lives.

This could be a growth step for all of you.

How can you help your kids with this?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss