From Survivng to Thriving & backslides in between.

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When you aren't focusing on him, info will drop into your lap. LOL!

What happens w/the mlcer is that they need to a hero/rescuer, someone who takes care of someone w/o being criticized. Your h hooked up w/this woman because her xh went jail and she most likely gave him some sob story about their marriage wasn't a good one, they didn't have anything in common, etc. Once mlc kicks in and they start talking to each other, they begin to belive their stories and that's when the emotional affair kicks off. It's not that they are any better than we are, it's just that the euphoria/infatuation/lust begins. They all think "hey, this person really gets me and understands what I'm going through. I think this is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with." As time marches on, the euphoria/infatuation/lust will begin to turn to control, i.e., the ow becomes very controlling/demanding. If the men ever get their spine back in place, they will see the light and get rid of the ow or the ow will get sick and tired of mlcer and find someone else.

Mlcers who get together w/other mlcers become two peas in a pod and don't see the forest for the trees. It's all about emotional feelings and believe it or not...it's not about lust/infatuation after a while. It's about being roommates and f@ck buddies once the dew is off the rose.

Yes, they will take the abuse and then take it out on us or anyone that comes into contact w/them. Some of them actually do end up fighting and hurting each other, but generally one will back down and find someone or something to take their frustration out on.

So, grab a chair on the curb and watch the circus go by. Now, that she's back working, it may just get more interesting. Popcorn is on the house and we are popping up quite a bit for the holiday.