Yes, I shake my head sometimes that even tho the marriage crumbled, the kids have turned out strong. We've had lots of interaction with the mental health community due to S20s diagnosis and have always made use of those resources when needed. I have no excuse for not seeking treatment earlier
Yes, we are able to talk but I had to change from the person trying to get them to talk and then giving them solutions to a "support structure" always in the background but there to listen without judgment when the need arises, allowing them to work out their solutions.
It's interesting that the breakup of my marriage has improved all my R.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss