Confused at Where I am - Part 2

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Thanks for the replies.

You're welcome.

Wife said a couple of weeks ago that her and OM had a long talk and that she informed him that she was not in a position to be in a relationship with him with everything else that was going on in her life.

Bull.

Utter rubbish.

Rule Number 1: All Cheaters Lie.

How do you know they're lying? Their mouths are moving.

I'm not sure where they stand at this point as I have stopped buying my ticket to their show.

They're still involved with each other, one way or another.

Good that you've gotten rid of the ticket to their drama.

Wife and I have been getting on well last while.

Good.

Im not sure what to make of it however.

Just keep it up whilst you're under the same roof. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated, parasited off (your instinct will tell when this is happening) or have your chain yanked.

Be fun, reliable, strong, masculine and engaged with her whilst she's still home.

Based on all this, wife at the moment is still planning on leaving as of Jan 1st

She may do or she may not.

Believe 50% of what you see and 0% of what you hear.

My gut says she is still at least talking to OM if not meeting him.

Your gut is right.

Trust it.

Should I then stick to my guns in terms of the separation?

YES!