I just have to vent out my sarcasm and gossip I found out yesterday.
If I haven't mentioned it, I live a very small town. Popuation 2500 -3000. So news travels fast.
Found out OW is now working at the same place XH is! Now isn't that cozy!
So I wonder if when XH told D10 that "ow has gone back to work" if that was his way of telling her that is why they have no cell service anymore was because she wasn't working and XH had to cover everything.
Even more interesting how information out of no where falls into my lap. Today I was talking to a caregiver at work, that I normall don't get to talk to because she works a different shift than I do. She told me that she lived with OW and her now XH (that's in jail for attempted murder on my XH) years ago. Sh lived with them because her family was homeless for a while and I guess were friends with OW and her family. Well the first thing this caregiver said about OW was that she was not a nice person (to put it nicely) and she is no longer friends with her. I had told her that I had heard her Xh was a very nice man, a hard working man and always heard good things about him, so I was suprised she slipped a cog and went postal that night. She told me that YES OW now XH was a really nice guy and she liked him, and her sister is good friends with him. She said that OW's XH absolutely adored OW and was completely in love with her for the 26 years they were together....before she moved out and hooked up with two men.
So...Im putting pieces together. I strongly seem to think that OW started her own MLC, and being friends with my XH, when his MLC started to click in, they just decided to be two peas in a pod.
Very interesting. Very.
WE've said here on the boards that the OP can very well be in MLC themselves.
Now from a spiritual and philosophical, even objective point of view, I wonder what on earth kind of learning lessons two MLCers can gain from being together.
This isn't the first time I've heard from someone that OW is just a B*tch. It's not self confidence and knowing what she wants, it's down right frosty, rude, obnoxious behavior this woman exhibits.
CAn anyone tell me, and GUYS PLEASE YOUR INPUT, what makes a man be attracted to a woman like that? Is it some Madonna/Whore complex?
I've just been taken aback about a few things the girls have witnessed with OW and how she speaks to XH. He acts whipped around her! Yet he'll turn around and spew at me. A frien thinks he's taking all her abuse and literally doesn't know what to do with the situation he's got himself into, so he turns around and dumps on me.
Observations, and thoughts. Don't worry Snodderly that man hasn't ruined my Christmas and nor will he!
