Hi Sam4nh. Im new to this site. Did want to take something you mentioned and run with it. Ive read it a few times in other posts and youve now mentioned bout your W anger.I know we all want our partners back but it really is a big ask by them if they want to return. Not only does my MLC girlfriend have an affair but she has gone from this loving partner to a cruel,cold,callous and cold hearted beast full of anger directed at me. So not only do we have to forgive the affair but i find just as big an ask is to forgive the way they have treated us. So id like to ask for any thoughts and is this full on anger normal? I know when i went thru my MLC my now ex wife said i was unbearable to be around. I know i yelled at her a few times but the anger i have seen from my MLC girlfriend puts my outbursts to shame!