Well, I've read a a few pages of the pursuit and distance post. I can see some similarities to my relationship very early on, before we got married and when it was still long distance. This was when I was at a point when I needed to make some decisions and needed a time out from her while I was mulling all that over. I asked her for some time and she was accepting of that. The problem was that I didn't take the time out as I should have. I still contacted her more than a few times as I was going over how my life would change. Anyway, I could see how there may have been some pursuit and distance there.
I can also see it happening at the very end. When she finally came out and told me how she was feeling and what she was seeking she began distancing and I began the pursuing...but we never switched places since, she's never pursued since, just distanced. But, that's also because I kept pursuing. I no longer am pursuing, but it's only been about 2 mnths...
