Thanks, AJ, I don't expect you to have the answers, though it would be great if you did of course. I just put this thread out there hoping others could share some of their successes, or at least we could all talk it out together.
I don't think there was a tipping point. I think it deteriorated steadily. I have one BFF that I can/do share everything with. Otherwise, life is busy and enjoyable for me. School is out right now, so I'm busy with Christmas and doing a little redecorating. Met with some GF's just this morning for breakfast. I'm not unhappy otherwise, just at a stalemate in my M. H and I can get along fine with regular (superficial) life, I just don't know how to get to anything deeper.
