Lostforwords - What kind of therapist would give an opinion on someone that they have never met? This scares me. Good thing you ended up meeting them. Our MC#1 in my last 1 on 1 with her put her arm around me and told me too that I am nothing that my W perceives. My W would not go back to her or the other 3 she went to (2 on her own) as she came back ticked off that she was not entirely right. She is now seeing an IC that is guiding her through the D process. This IC has never met me but feels it okay to render opinions about me. I guess if they see enough people and learn to spin their way, eventually someone will tell them what they want to hear. Our family and friends do not see it either. Those who challenge her she avoids and cuts ties.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
