Wife said a couple of weeks ago that her and OM had a long talk and that she informed him that she was not in a position to be in a relationship with him with everything else that was going on in her life.
Like her marriage to you? Sandi2 would say this is disrespectful of her to even tell you this.
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Wife and I have been getting on well last while. Im not sure what to make of it however.
Getting on well like she's committing to the M?
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Based on all this, wife at the moment is still planning on leaving as of Jan 1st
Oops, I guess no on the commitment.
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My gut says she is still at least talking to OM if not meeting him.
Should I then stick to my guns in terms of the separation?
Our guts are usually right. Unless she is willing to cut off the OM totally, or you're willing to allow her to eat cake, it seems you may have to "stick to your guns".
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
