Thanks for the replies.

Wife said a couple of weeks ago that her and OM had a long talk and that she informed him that she was not in a position to be in a relationship with him with everything else that was going on in her life.

I'm not sure where they stand at this point as I have stopped buying my ticket to their show.

Wife and I have been getting on well last while. Im not sure what to make of it however.

Based on all this, wife at the moment is still planning on leaving as of Jan 1st

My gut says she is still at least talking to OM if not meeting him.

Should I then stick to my guns in terms of the separation?