So my wife calls from work around 5:30 and says only has one more case so she'll be off by 7 and can meet us for dinner. I tell kids who get all excited because they weren't expecting to eat with her. One of her single friends (who I don't trust at all) calls me at 7 and says W is stuck in case for a little longer so go ahead and eat w/o her. I just got feeling on the call that something didn't seem right but could be in my head. Kids are pretty bummed out when I tell them. It's now 8:40 and kids have been asking non-stop about her for last hour and it's driving me crazy. When I was giving son a bath D called W's cell (on her own) which was turned off (no ring) and left a message. D7 also asked if I could take her to gymnastics tomorrow which is something W usually does.
I'm coming to grips with her disrespecting me and treating me like a pile of crap but when she disappoints kids and lets them down it really gets my blood boiling. Not even a simple text saying she was going out after work so at least they would stop asking. It's going to be hard for me to keep my mouth shut for a second night especially since kids are upset.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are