I saw your post by pure luck. If you want to be sure a moderator reads your post, click 'notify'. We do not read every post unless you're on full moderation, which you aren't.
Lisa- you are a valued DBer. Please feel free to post, and if you are in question, feel free to click 'notify' to have it moderated. If I see something that is questionable, I will edit and let you know.
The things that aren't allowed are likely to be obvious: links to sites other than this one, certain books/sites that are not in line with DBing. There is a LOT of leeway here.
When I see the title that you mentioned, I think I may have read the book many years ago, and the basic premise---goes right along with Michele's teaching: "Easier done than Said" and "Actions Speak Louder Than Words"...etc.
Verbal communication is overrated and over-used.
Do what you do best, share what works or hasn't worked for you.
I know you have been down a long hard road. The issues in your marriage are NOT your fault, and you are really amazing to have given this marriage the effort that you have.
