Thanks, Tori. I know you are going through a tough time right now.
S23 had some interesting insights into "the sitch"
1-that I had taken the "wake-up call," worked on myself and was now a lot happier. We both agreed that my depression had an affect on everyone.
2-that Dad was Dad, a nice guy who doesn't show his emotions, avoids conflict, is very laid back and sticks his head in the sand waiting for things to blow over.
We both agreed that things had been very difficult for all of us before the BD, due to many factors.
Seeing this has spurred S23 to work on himself and he has a very good understanding of the importance of sharing both the good and not so good emotions involved in a relationship.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss