I would like to add my 2cents to this as well. When I first got here I heard a few things to that felt like salt in a wound with some lemon juice and rubbing alcohol as well. I thought screw them they don't know me, they don't know my wife. And then it finally hit me, at that point I didn't know anything.
What I thought I knew wasn't working, so I decided to listen. By that time divorce was in the air. And I may very well end up with exactly that. I have seen improvements in my sitch, but it took a long time after applying what everyone was telling me. Had I started sooner the D word may have never been spoken.
Even I if I end up divorced, I can guarantee I will not be done standing for my w and family. I will continue to lean on the amazing people who take time out of their days, out of their work, out of their families, to help me.
I highly suggest you do the same.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
