Back to the extended stay, Come to find out he only paid for 2 weeks instead of the month he kept swearing to everyone he was getting. I now see why and what the plan was. She and he are pretty evil people. Lord, forgive me. If you had been reading this thread you will know he had been begging me for money and I havent even flinched. A few times I slipped and he got a reaction from me but nothing like he has received in the past from me.
He got a 2 br suite told our 12 y/o that the extra room was his and that for him and his brothers and sis when they came over and that he and his ow were going to slow down and he was going to work on being a good dad and getting them a home and all this crap that excited my son. According to 12 DS he tried to like dads new gf but when dad wasnt there she asked him all kinds of questions and made him uncomfortable. He told me these things but made me promise not to tell his dad bc he didnt want his dad mad at him. My 12DS has a bed wetting issue he has had forever and it got worse while over there. My H got mad bc he had to wash the sheets and stuff daily. Also since she only has her kids occasionally but our son was over there all the time it got to be a problem with them.
Well the move out was just a show. He had her over every single night of course that caused issues with my S and my H. my son finally had told me about the food situation so I went and purchased groceries for the suite bc it has a kitchen. I purchased things mainly for my son. I pre cooked hamburgers, taco meat and spagetti sauce with meat that he could just heat up. Needless to say her and her kids go through it knowing it came from me. She even had the nerve to text me that she was enjoying an ice cold Coke that I had bought and that she always wanted to to buy her a drink. I didnt respond. She sent that she is fixing tacos for her family at her bfs hotel suite compliments of chef ex wife.
well of course the go through all the food and H asked me to take son to get more. I said Oh I dont think so. So much more .....He starts drama with our s and so does ow. so he told dad he wanted to come home to mom and his real family. He was dropped off 10 minutes later. H and ow have told everyone that he tried so hard to make it work with his son and even got a 2 bdroom suite but son went back to momma. so poor poor H.
Truth is he ran out of money to pay for his room needed to get rid of our s12 so he could go back to her apt and not make it look like he was the bad guy. He swore to my son he wasnt going back there no matter what just last night he told him that and guess where he is?......
What is kicking me off is that he is telling our s12 that HE9son 12) made the call when he said he didnt like dads gf and wanted to go to his family. oh wow!!
again forgive me I am getting this out
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
