I know you've talked to H about boundaries concerning your D. He obviously doesn't GET it. Be more specific about what subjects are off the table w her. Help her to know what to say or do if he brings these up. He is not being appropriate and dumping on her is NOT OKAY!
You have every right to be emotional about things. That's why it's called a "roller coaster ride", right? The holidays only escalate things too, so we are all doing our best to get through these. One day at a time.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.