I put money in our joint account last night.. I sent a text today to my WAW. this is what i sent.
Hi XXXXX Hope your having a good day. I wanted you to know there is 300 in our joint account. plese accep this as a gift.. By no means am I doing this because I think u need it. Im just doing it so you can get those little extra things we always want to get for everyone. so please just accept my gift to you!! Love you and God be with youand fill your heart with peace love and joy today!!
her reply TY!! Although I appreciate it. I wont use it. Enjoy ur day.
My reply back
Well it is there and your gift. I do still love you very much so XXXXXX..
Her reply Ty!
Her 2nd reply The best gift you could give me is to respect my wishes!!! I believe you are trying to make me HATE my family. I would never do that to you!!!!!
My reply HUH?
Her reply Just think about it !!! Just think about it!!! I am too angry to elaborate so im not going to so I dont say anything i may regret!!
My reply I do not understand. I have not done anything and dont get why you hate your Family. I dont talk about you I dont do or say anything. I dont understand why u r still angry. We will talk soon and I'm sorry for whatever u think i may have done to make you mad at your family..
Her reply I did not say I hated my family!
Im so at a loss here and need some input How did this simple gift turn into such a mess. I just do not understand why she is still so angry at me and now seems to be at her family. What the hell did i do wrong.....