Originally Posted By: 4311
Not sure I repeated history. Back then we were young we didn't have the "not being awake" or "living life" issues. I'm sure I'm missing something..

I have no intent at all, I am posting what I see and using my knowledge that I have learned here and in life.

As far as history, my point is more from my POV, but something I learned along the way.
We tend to do things based upon our FOO(Family of Origin)
We dont know that we are doing certain things, it is more subconscious.
For instance, men tend to pick women based on the best traits of their mother and the opposite of their mothers worst traits.
Women do it with their fathers the same way.
You dont even know you are doing it.

My grandfather was divorced and lived a long happy second marriage.
My father seems to have done the same thing, although my mother divorced him late in life.
Now I have followed in their footsteps.
IS this all a coincindence?

What parts can we CONTROL and what is beyond our CONTROL?

Food for thought.


Me-70, D37,S36