That's right. Remember, you are moving on with your life.... let H see how happy you are without him. Of course, you've been physically separated for so long, it's not much of a change - and BTW, that's why he was able to detach - he did it a long time ago.

Seriously - remember, you are a hot mama and you don't need no stinkin' H... you have your own wonderful life with wonderful things and wonderful friends and wonderful kids. Believe that you do.

I was chatting with a close friend of mine who is going through D, telling her I finally had realized that 1) H is not going to change 2) H is treating me like crap and 3) I can do better. She told me, "That's right. And the only person who doesn't know that is YOU."

So listen up Ruby... H is not going to change, he's treating you like crap, and you DESERVE better. OK? You have more important stuff to do than wait for him to text you back!!!!!


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page