Dellboy, that was an interesting read and makes me think of my own recolections of past memories. I'm starting to recall things that maybe were not as great as I remember.
But I also see that my H is I think is BPD because there are things he says that flat-out just never happened. Just my opinion.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending