Wife lost in the MLC-We are now separated

[sam4nh]

I am leaving to visit my family today. I've had very little contact with my W as she has pretty much gone dark. The few text messages that I do receive I've tried to wait for a bit of time and then responded but in a very generic way. She is a bit up in arms right now since she is now reviewing the legal separatoin agreement and feels that the mediator left out a lot of things and she's upset. I'm going to let her stew with that before I respond. No matter what I say, she's going to blame me for getting what I wanted in the separation and she is getting nothing. Right now it all has to do with the mediator did not include her stuff like the condo/utilities not being funded by our joint banking account. I do not have an issue with paying of these expenses, but she wants every little thing written down so she feels she is "covered". If I try and explain anything then she'll just go into a spewing rage. Hmmm what is better for me??? I think I'll leave it alone for now.

I took several peoples advice and bought a couple of non-personal gifts for my W for Chirstmas. I also left a note saying that Santa left a couple of gifts for her and our dog. Have a Merry Christmas and a great week. I ended by saying, Peace, Joy and Happiness always.

I tried not to be to personal and I do wish her peace, joy, and happiness. The way she's been acting is probably lately I do not feel she wants anything with me long term, but with the help from this forum, I'm sure I will survive and be a better person no matter what she does. I'm still working on the DB's techniques, but I do feel somewhat more a peace. I'm working on the joy and happiness!!