I'm not going to get into a debate with you because I know the truth. You are just guessing here.
I really don't know why you feel the need to be so mean though. I always tell my kids that it's okay to be critical but not mean.
I'll hold off on giving advice, if you say so. (it's not like that guy is taking it anyway.)
So what next?
1. Yesterday I ran for a solid 20 min on the treadmill. Oh man it was rough but I did it even though it was slooooooow. 2. My wife went to a happy hour after work and left me with the kids. We ate pizza and played games. It was fun, my little one said he liked spending more time with me. It made me feel good..even though I am supposed to be responsible for my own happiness. 3. When my wife came home, I acted nice and friendly. She brought me a burger. 4. Because we were talking about the love languages I asked her if she wanted to watch some tv. She said no. I also noticed she didn't have her ring. It drove me crazy and I was obsessing about it, but didn't say a word. 5. She went up to bed and I went to my in law apartment.