I had good reasons for all my controlling, too.

And it was controlling on my part. I wanted him to be who I needed him to be.

Stop texting and emailing and see what happens.

Let him be who he is.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss