You are right. So I emailed and asked. You have to remember bad communication and little ignoring games like these were the basis of our marriage. I basically said remember when I didn't reply to your texts because I was at work and you asked if I was mad? Well I am asking the same thing.
See , Bug, H lives on the phone, and he has always replied reasonably to a text and I try to text during the day, not at night when he may be out with gf etc.
So when he started not replying, I know it is a little game. Do I have an expectation ? Yes. And I know I shouldn't..
I also wanted to clear up the friends/ friendly thing since all his emails and texts became very stilted and robotic. Lol! I said I am glad to hear you share your work hobbies etc, I just don't feel I have any business asking where, or with who etc.
His reply was a little warmer lol! So, for me communication has to be spelled out at this point because we have never done it before. And you're right. My h is the perfect db er. Lol!
