In crisis -BIG MESS-help

[Brahmin]

We focused on child care, wanted more time with son, I have every other weekend now, once I get safe place I can take him overnight. I got a new car seat.
I was nervous, did not know what she would throw at us. We took money out of the equation, agreed on what every she wanted, did not want to argue, just wanted to move on and focus on sontime and leave the relation agenda for now, she texted me saying S health is not well and he need his nap time. I said I be fine with 4-7 rather than 10-6 this week.
she emails me saying certain time adjustments with his napping, i said I am fine. She was planing dates, sent an email yest, I said ok via text, short and to the point. I said if you needed help with S or any thing just let me know, since she mentioned his health so many times. She sent dates, so as before I asked her if she would upload it in google calender, she said it all your and your responsibility to do all that , I said I will do it.
She started texting my parents and sister saying why you guys did not talk to me for this long. Which we did she wouldnt repond to even in an emergency, Why didnt you talk to me in the court,
she just did not make any eye contact to any of us and just walked out, she wanted us to come and talk to her, but she was not humble to even have friendly eye contact or even a hello
when we were close, I made non specific comment about weather to break the awkward silence with us and our lawyers
Why are you not on my side, you all should support me rather than H. Dont know why she is expecting us to talk to her
They just kept quite and I thought it good not to react and take some time, write some thing sensible, allow things to processes
I think she was nervous and she looked pale,
I am having tough time knowg what to and how much to communicate, lines are open now