Don't know if I have handled this right or not. Since talking on MOnday on phone and I said he can't be my person anymore. He has taken to not replying immediately to any texts or emails and even not replying to some at all. One text I sent was on banking, one I sent taking him up on offer to pick something up for me and third was about son.
I think when we had our convo and I said he couldn't be my person because he left, he was hurt. I have continued with a friendly tone (if possible in texts lol and email), but his are very flat. It feels as if there is a punishment here as in "You said no personal stuff (I said no private life stuff) so you get what you asked".
Will see him tonight, tomorrow briefly, Sunday and Christmas Day, so maybe I will be able to gauge better.
I am just going to continue with my texts as is, short, friendly and perhaps through in a tidbit about nothing too personal when I speak of kids, schedule etc. (Like I let him know I passed an exam. No reply...nothing)
How come my H detaches better than I do lol?
I don't think I will bite on the whole delayed/no response thing. I had asked him yesterday if he got text in morning and he said yes. I said "Oh, was out of country and thought you may had replied and carrier dropped it" (which happens sometimes) So I know now he is just not replying right away
