I am learning that the majority of couples that do end up reconciling don't do it until they have lived life with others, even after they have felt they have loved others. Only then are they, only than are we, able to truly judge in a healthy way what we want.
Maybe you understand why KD was asking you about X1 now.
Originally Posted By: 4311
I am in a tricky place. I have been doing many things for ME and have blogged about those a number of times. But I am also doing those things with a heavy heart. That, I do not know how to let go of. I've only been in this state once before, over 20 yrs ago... I don't know...
Can you tell me more about this?
I know for me, that I need to look deep within myself and really be sure that I will not repeat history again.
Instanity they say is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
But that does not mean that I have to stop eating butter cookies. (unless I weigh 500 lbs and have high cholestrol) Changing the right things is very important too.
I have a welcome post on the MLC forum See if you can find it and do all the homework I assign there.
Or you can start a thread there and I will put it on your thread.
