I was going to work on my 180's and my goals tonight however... When I got home my d14 was here and she wanted to go see The Hobbit. Normally I would have said no because I have to work tomorrow. Instead I said look up some times and theater's and I may go tonight. She looked up times and picked a theater close and well, we went to the movies.

My daughter is my little geek when it comes to movies like these, she's the only one to go with me, so I always take her to the movies she wants to see. I totally enjoyed myself, great movie.

My 14 year old daughter taught me a lesson tonight about GAL'ing. She has been through hell and keeps smiling and she has been GAL'ing like crazy. While watching the movie a huge grin creeps up on me and my eyes are watering up. These for a change were happy tears (something I use to never do was cry at being happy). My daughter taught me tonight to keep moving, make a path for yourself. Dust yourself off and get a frigging life.

After the movie i told her thank you for what you taught me tonight. She never asked what she taught me, I wonder if she knows. That girl and my son have been trying thru their actions to show me the way forward. I have amazing kids.

So, this means for everyone on this site, get off yer azz get a life, make yourself better, be the friend, spouse and parent you always wanted. Stop wasting your time here on Earth.

You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.