My wife wants to separate

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Need some responses guys! I have a new development. My MIL and I have been suggesting to my W to ask her therapist to switch her off the Zoloft and to something else. her appointment was today. Anyway, she just told me that the therapist recommends she stays on Zoloft because it is the best for the panic attacks she gets. Then the W says to me 'I feel good on the Zoloft. The only disadvantage is I can't orgasm anymore, which [censored]'. I was stunned! I don't want to hear about her sex with OM. Although I must admit I got a kick out of knowing she is not having any orgasms with him. We NEVER had that problem. Sex may have not been enough for her, but I made sure she ALWAYS had her big O.

Question for the veterans and especially the ladies. Is it possible for a new relationship (3 week old) to stay fun and exciting if you cannot even orgasm? Wouldnt that get old fast? So now I know the sex is not that good, the only thing left OM is providing that I was not is compliments and self esteem boosters. I need to work on those. Any ideas? Is it too early to start? i know that DB rules say she is not ready for advances from you yet and you should wait for when she shows more interest in our R. Is that right?