...and I think I want to see other people as part of that. I honestly think I have to kind of go through that experience or these OM issues are going to continue to pop up.
That's really what worries me. I'm no expert, but everything I've read strongly recommends you figure yourself out first, put your M to rest, and then consider dating. I realize most of us don't do it that way, but I also realize that the D rate for 2nd marriages is 70%. Just be careful, whatever you decide.
