Is it a full moon or something? My W said she'd be home at 430 and we agreed to go to dinner with my B and his W at 530. No calls, no response to texts at 6 so B invited me for a drink while we waited. After drink, still no calls or response, so we decided to go eat. Half way thru dinner W calls and asks if I want her to come up and clearly she'd been drinking (was at a work party, so I get it). I was worried that she'd been there since 330 and been drinking so I said no, just head home. 45 mins later on my way home, I get a nasty call from her complaining that I didn't let her come up and she hadn't eaten, etc etc. She's cornered me no less than 3 times since I've been home complaining about it like it was my fault.
Honestly, I get the reaction a little, because normally I would have just canceled and then complained about her being late. We used to have fights like this all the time. Now, I figure, why should I miss out just because she can't be considerate.
At this point, I'm just ignoring her and enjoying myself watching some shows. I suggest you do the same
