My coach did some reassuring. But now my H has not been in contact. I have sent him some texts telling him that I do understand how he feels, that I have been giving him space in order to give him time with his feelings. I have been telling him I value him and respect him. Tonight he said a comment that makes me wonder if he did "choose me. " H said that " I was the one leaving" so makes me wonder if he has been in contact with the OW and can't leave her as I had told him it was me or her. He was supposed to be here in two days so we could be at his parents for Christmas... That has been now pushed to the 22nd. I don't know what to do now
