MW, I hope you know that the people who are posting on your thread truly have the best of intentions. They honesty do. No one here HAS to help you, or anyone else for that matter. The folks on this board have gone through and are going through the same horrific feelings of pain and sadness that you are feeling.
No one here is a professional. All are here because they share a common bond. Well two bonds... All find their relationships in a place they don't want them to be. And all are pro-marriage and really want to see those who want to R to come back together successfully.
Please, set your ego aside, listen to the advice that makes sense to you, and ignore what doesn't. But there truly is no need to lash out at those that are trying to help. It really is displaced anger anyway.
I encourage you to seek out more/different IC then the one you weren't happy with. If you are looking for serious, professional advice, then you really need to pay for it. Otherwise, thank the folks that are offering free guidance, whether you like what they have to say or not.
