Wife wants to separate and is having an affiar

[GH31]

Do NOT under any circumstances move out of your home.

Avoid this like you would avoid voluntarily slamming your private parts repeatedly in a car door.

Don't do it.

Whatever marital crimes you have committed (and believe me, you will have committed a lot of them) she is banging her OM. Do not allow him to come into your house and bang your Mrs. potentially when you have your kids at home.

She will wail, scream, try and manipulate you, say crap like "we have got no chance now - there was a chance but now there isn't" etc. It's all bull, a storm that will blow over.

You are to calmly tell her that the house is your home and that if she wants out of the marriage then she must be the one to leave.

You will never have seen anger like it.

So what.

You are to remain as steadfast and unmoving as a rocky islet in the middle of a raging sea.

Do NOT move out of your family home.

GH31