First of all try to stick to one thread until you get to 100 posts.

First thread.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...784#Post2306784

Stage that he is in.
REPLAY!
Anything less than 2 years from BD is almost always that.

He is being nice because that is part of his MLC script.
Quote:
I'm very lost as far as how to be detached but how to talk to him if he's initiating conversation.
He is testing you to see if your changes are real.

Detachement is for YOU
To keep your sanity and PROTECT you.

You saw what happened when you asked him to reconcile.
This is why we advise no relationship talk.

How are you doing with the homework I assigned from the other thread?
What are you doing for YOU?


Me-70, D37,S36