"Hey Mr. Bond....since you know everything could you tell me Powerball numbers for Saturday?"
Really? You're going to start acting immature? This is the attitude your W sees. She's not interested in a man-child.
"But really Mr. Bond, I read through the old post and didn't find anything about the love language."
December 7 post. Obviously you're not looking hard enough.
You wrote: "Her Love Lanuages, seems to be physical touch"
I wrote: "You're way off base there. That seems to be YOUR love language. It's obvious from how you've described her that her LL are actually Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service and "QUALITY" Time (Quality meaning NOT SEX)."
"But more to the point, on one hand you say I'm lazy,"
I was just agreeing with what 25years said.
"but then you don't want me to find out my wife's LL,"
Nope didn't tell you that. In fact, you were the one who already talked about the LL wayyyy back on Dec. 7.
"but instead rely on someone's interpretation of what it is based on many 1/1000th of her life. No offense, but I still know my wife better than you."
No offense, but you don't. Or else you wouldn't be here. Instead of arguing and acting like you're on a playground, how about LISTENING and LEARNING for a change.
BTW I was trying to see it from her point of view...not yours...not mine.
I'm going to try the exercise in the book.
I keep telling myself this is a battle I can win. I know it, but it will be hard work. So far."
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.