Thank you AS and busting for your much appreciated support. Without you and the rest of my friends on here, I'd be lost and in very deep trouble. Your courage has given me strength so it's really YOU who are the strong and lovable people!

I don't want anyone to think I'm not pro marriage. I still think my H should have stayed with me and gone to MC to work through our problems. However, as AStander said, we all know how much we can take and we reach the point where we will no longer be punished. We need to feel valued and special to someone.

Afterall, we've done the work and can't be with someone who won't.

I'll keep you posted.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing