and labug, my goodness...when i read the email with the edit...that is almost exactly they way I would have written something in the past! It kind of made me cringe at myself seeing it written down like that. Its like I had no idea what kind of not so subtly messages I was sending..dripping in blame and guilt and shame.
Thank you for putting that out there. I know it has helped me :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home