wow! those are some pretty great positives! i have them, too! like you, i eat hummus for dinner often. i love it! i don't make my bed. i'm enjoying my son and his family more.
(my H didn't like our dog on the bed, either, so i trained her to sleep on a dog bed, next to my side of the bed. when she gets back in the bed with me, i'll know it's truly over with H!!)
we have gained a lot and lost some. are the gains worth the losses? only time will tell but so far, it's not so bad!
i'm so happy for you that you have such good things in your life!!!
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M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing