Hi Help.

I saw your response and wanted to drop you a note so you wouldn't feel so alone. I know it can be frustrating when no one responds to a post.

I'm not a veteran by any means, but I've read on here that most suggest that the spouse who wants out be the one to move out. Not you.

Keep reading posts on here and be diligent with your 180s. Take care of yourself, eat, sleep, exercise.

Hoping someone with more experience chimes in. In the meantime, try to focus on yourself. Take care.