I written before about my emails to H being too long and blaming and always containing a not so thinly veiled message or lesson.

Here's an example of where I was before and where I am now.

Hi H, S19 tells me you told him there is a problem with the stove pipe and that smoke will get into the house. I'm not sure why you told him and not me as it's not his responsibility and it puts him in the middle. I lit the stove last night (under strong protest from S19) and thought I smelled smoke but it could have been the power of suggestion. We're still alive today smile

Is this something you can fix? If not and it's an expensive fix, I don't have the money right now because there have been some other house issues, and as you know the property taxes and car registration are due this month. Oh, and it's Christmas

Bug

I just keep looking forward and have no expectation.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss