So, wife is suggesting that we 'ease' into the seperation and that she initially only spends 2-3 days out of the house etc to see how things go.

In some ways this seems like a good idea as it gives me more chance to work on things with her.

In another way I am totally against this as it seems like cake eating and another way for her to get her 2 lives with little consequences.

I would really appreciate some advice here on this one.