Last night before I went to bed I checked my "old" email account to see if he emailed again.
Lordy, guess who emailed me again????
Well this email contains a friendly message of what his schedule is NEXT WEEK, when he can pick up the girls on Christmas Eve, asking me if that works for me, telling me to let him know if it works for him, informing me he will call the girls TODAY ON THE LAND LINE, and giving me his home phone number.
And here we go again. From complete freeze out, normally vacating from all life, him being sealed in his mental man cave, to jumping back into life, and frantically trying to figure out what to do. I have seen this man do this so many times over the last 8 years, this is nothing. Usually Christmas does seem to bring him out of his weird disassociative funk he's in most of the time. Im wondering if he managed to get some money and is on a spending high. Nothing gives him more pleasure then to blow money.... and at Christmas.
I may have to break down and reply just to let him know the girls expect Santa to leave gifts Christmas morning. We had discussed that a few months ago. I decided this will be the last year Santa comes, given their cousin still feels Santa comes, and I don't want one to ruin it for the other!
