Originally Posted By: PowerOfNow
KD? When you let go you left right ?


No... I didn't let go until well after I left...

because I still kept trying to confront her... to "catch" her... to plead my case... it did not make it better.

So...

I stated my position, set my boundaries (the not being in an open M was the one I set as I walked out the door), and stuck to them.

My M hasn't been saved. There was nothing to save. But I got "me" back. I finally began to respect myself, again. And with that, life got better.