Think it is a mid life crisis - thoughts, advice?

[2chiquitos]

I don't know if what I did was the best thing but it worked for me.

There was a time when I gave H ALL the info. Ex. throughout the day I text him what the kids and I were doing. I would call him to let him know our whereabouts, etc.

I did this for a while. Then when I started getting impatient about R I stopped. He totally noticed it but knew it was because I was tired of him still communicating with OW.

So in my case he knew that if he wanted to continue that type of communication with me, then he needed to end it w/ OW.

Mind you, I wasn't one to constantly be texting and calling before the sitch so it was a 180 for me.

Hope this helps in some way.
Take care! and when he sends you sexy outfits ask yourself if it disrupts your serenity or brings you closer to R? Don't think too much about his confusing messages. You'll go crazy trying to solve that puzzle!